Hey my loves ❤ I hope you all are doing extremely well !
Today’s post is going to be on ‘How To Stay Positive’. So, I’m just going to go through and give you guys tips and tricks that I use on how to live a positive life.
I hope some of these work for you, so keep on reading 😉
So, I think the most important thing when it comes to being a more positive person is to changing your perspective. In a lot of cases, for a lot of people, the world seems like this big scary place, where the bad things can happen in any moment and just ruin everything. It’s hard, but you have to change that perspective. The way I see it is, sure bad things can happen, SO WHAT? You loose your job, you fail high school, SO WHAT? It’s not the end of the world. And you can still live a positive life even when these bad things happen.
You always have options. Because everything that happened, you can change and do something even better. Things will always work out, you just have to make them work. And you can’t stress yourself out or worry about all of these things, because if you have a solution to the problem, what’s the point of worrying?
Worrying isn’t gonna solve any of your problems, it’s not gonna get you anywhere. It’s just gonna make you miserable. And it’s all about you attitude. So, even if shitty things happen in life, you just have to have positive attitude and I think that is one of the most important things when it comes to staying positive.
Another really important thing is when you get upset, you need to learn to just let it go. It takes a lot of practise, but the best thing to do is just breathe and move on. Because getting upset will only negatively affect you. It’s okay to get angry, it’s okay to be sad, but it’s really important to know when it’s time to let it go and move on. Otherwise it’s just gonna dragging you down.
The next thing you have to do when attempting to live a more positive life is be kind to others. Even when they’re mean to you! This one is pretty difficult to do, because it’s really easy to want to be mean back to somebody, but it’s important to try and always be kind. Because you attract what you put out into the universe, so if you’re constantly being kind and spreading positivity no matter what happens, then you are gonna attract that back to you.
It’s hard to always be kind to people. Especially cause sometimes you just want to tell people to shut up, tell them they are being annoying or being stupid or something like that, but it’s best to just try and always be kind, even when they are being mean. At first it’s probably gonna feel ‘fake’. When somebody insult you and you just respond ‘I’m sorry you feel that way’. Even if you’re not sorry that they feel that way and you think what they are saying is absolutely stupid, just try and respond kindly anyway. Because you will feel a lot better and it might make them realize that what they’re doing is wrong.
That one was especially hard for me, because I’m just a naturally very sarcastic and very sassy person, and I always have the best comebacks to people that aren’t very nice, but they are pretty funny. But I’ve learned to just hold them in and respond kindly. So if I can do it, you can do it.:)
Another very important thing is to cut out all the negativity. And I’m talking about everything! If there is people in your life who are constantly putting you down and making you feel worthless and making you unhappy, then you need to cut them out of your life. They don’t deserve to be in your life. And it could be hard to cut people out, but you have to do it for you. And once you do, you’re going to feel so much better! I cut so much people out of my life, that were bringing me down and it was the best decision that I’ve ever made.
Cutting the negativity out of your life also means cutting negative objects or negative memories. A lot of people seem to keep things that they think have sentimental value, but a lot of times those things have negative sentimental value.
And the last and most important thing is doing things that make you happy. A lot of people won’t do things that make them happy because they don’t think that they deserve it or they don’t want to waste the money or waste the time or bother anyone. But It’s really important to do things that make you happy in life. So find what ever it is that makes you happy and do that. Never feel bad for doing things that makes you happy. Even if people think it’s stupid and pointless, never apologize for doing things that make you happy.
See HERE 10 things that make me happy. 🙂
Always just keep in mind, nothing is really ever as bad as it seems. You can choose to see good things in life and you can choose to see bad things in life. It’s all up to you. Always keep that in mind, even when things are going wrong, you are completely in control of your own life.
I know this is a very long post and I’m really sorry for that. I really hope you enjoyed reading this. And if you did, thank you so much for reading it. It means a lot to me.
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